Close to your 20s? Here's what you should know
A lot of myths surround the transition into your twenties. It’s often painted as a magical season where everything falls into place—but the truth? It’s also a time when many people feel confused, anxious, or pressured to figure it all out at once.
Your twenties mark the shift from teenage years to adulthood. It comes with a new level of responsibility, independence, and self-discovery. And yes, it can feel overwhelming. But it’s also one of the most powerful and transformative decades of your life.
If you’re approaching your twenties, here are a few things you should know:
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1. Your twenties are for building, not just achieving
This is a foundational season. If you haven’t gotten the results you want yet—don’t panic. Keep building. Whether it's your skills, career, values, mindset, or habits, this is the time to lay strong groundwork. Progress is not always loud, but it’s always worth it.
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2. You're not too late to start anything
There’s no “perfect age” to begin. Don’t let the timelines of others rush your journey. As John Maxwell said, “It’s never too late to set a new goal or dream a new dream.” Whether it’s starting school, a business, a new skill, or even healing—start when you’re ready. Just start.
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3. You can still live freely—don’t drown in responsibilities
Yes, adulthood brings new demands, but don’t lose your sense of joy. Make time for the things that light you up. Travel if you can, try new hobbies, laugh often, and give yourself permission to just be. Balance is key—don’t trade all your peace for productivity.
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4. Comparison is natural, but it shouldn’t define you
You’ll see people doing big things—getting jobs, moving abroad, building brands, launching startups. While it’s okay to feel inspired, don’t let comparison rob you of your pace and peace. Your story is valid even if it looks different. Run your race with grace.
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5. This is a time to build meaningful relationships
Friendships and connections you build now can shape your future. Be intentional. Surround yourself with people who encourage your growth, challenge your thinking, and believe in your dreams. Let go of toxic ties that drain you, and make room for healthy, life-giving ones.
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Your twenties aren't a deadline—they're a launching pad.
You're not behind.
You're not alone.
You're becoming.
And that’s a beautiful thing.
